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Friday, October 09, 2009

Sharing is not necessary be Caring

Sharing problems with other is not something wrong or stupid but once u decide to share your stuff with others, do not expect too much from the person you are sharing it with. I'm sure when you decide to tell your stories, you may already predicted what is the outcome and effects to come later on. We can't confirm that what we said today, right here and now, to the person will be 100% sealed and without any third party getting involve in it. We can't tell how accurate that what we feel and what we share to the person today will express the feed backs you like or agree with.

No matter what you share to others, you need to share it with your own risk. Everything has its risk in it. It just depends whether you wanna take the risk or not. If you think that something is a "super secret" which you feel bad on even mentioning it, why bother to even slip a bit of detail bout it? Seal your lips and keep it to your heart if it really will affect your mood when people knows or giving wrong advice. No point spitting stuff out if you can't accept a single advice. If you insist on telling it, no matter what response or what advice you have back, just accept it or just listen. No point backing fire people when you feel bad bout the advice.

And last but not least, the listener have the right to just only listen. They do not have the responsibility to have any special treatment or caring on you. Knowing is not necessary lending a helping hand. Perhaps only advice. And each person have their own stand, own mentality and own thoughts. You can't expect everyone to give you the advice you like to hear.

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