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Wednesday, October 28, 2009

All About Pisces


看過很多關於雙魚的各種傳說,分析,解釋。似乎無一例外的把雙魚當作了一個女人的星座,動不動就是流眼淚,唉聲歎氣。可惜可歎,如果雙魚真的只是這樣的一個星座,那麼可以說沒有一個人願意去做雙魚,而歷史上也不會有什麼著名的雙魚人物了。

==========  最本質的部分:思考  ==========

雙魚座的最本質特點是什麼?善良?懦弱?溫柔?不是,我告訴你,是思考(在很多情況下,是過多的思考)。是的,雙魚座的一切特性,都來自於他過多的思考,或許世上沒有第二個星座比雙魚座更能洞察別人的心理,更能分析事情的本質。你可以稱之為敏感,但是一旦這種敏感能夠正確的使用,那麼沒有人能比雙魚座更快的學會人情事故,在這一方面,有一個雙魚座的偉人做的尤其出色,他的名字是周恩來。

因為思考的太多,所以雙魚座的人就算不是真正善良的,也至少是表面善良的。對於雙魚來說,善良與其說是本質,不如說是雙魚喜歡的一種生活方式,以善良的方式活著,是輕鬆而又受人尊敬的,一般的雙魚座很早就能洞察到這一點。再談談溫柔,這一點,不管是哪篇文章,都不會忘了提雙魚座的溫柔。是的,雙魚的確是溫柔的。因為雙魚總能敏感的體會到對方的細微變化,時刻瞭解到對方心意的轉變,表現在行動上,就是能盡快的知道,什麼時候應該為女孩披上自己的外衣,什麼時候應該停下手裡的活,轉過身去和女友好好的說話。

==========  與眾不同的部分:信仰   ==========

雙魚的信仰就是沒有信仰!

在雙魚的世界裡面,沒有絕對的對和錯,如果發生了一件事,他第一件做的事情是去理解這件事,去分析這件事,而不是去判斷這件事是對的還是錯的。下面引用一段話說明雙魚的這個特點:"魚座男人沒有偏見,沒有親自穿著鹿皮走幾哩路,他不會評斷印地安人;沒有試試赤腳走路,他也不會評斷裸體主義者。甚至這些做了,他還是會滿心諒解而不會過於批評。他很少冷酷的指控,倒是每每溫暖的忍耐,他甚至會試試瞭解他的岳母,天底下有幾個男人能這樣?海王子擁有罕見的同情精神,他的朋友向他吐露秘密而從不擔憂會把他嚇著,要嚇到魚起碼需要兩噸以上的炸彈。如果你和我以及你的魚兒三人同坐一室,一個男人走進來告訴我們他有些擔憂,因為他重婚,在四個州各有一個老婆,你可能眼睛瞪得大大瞧他,冒著火,心想監獄是最適合他的地方,我可能鄙夷的說他是個卑鄙的流氓,但你的魚兒很可能問:"那四州?你愛不愛她們其中任何一個?"魚很好奇,但防震。對他來說,這個傢伙需要一缸子同情以及好得要命的律師。"

有一位偉人利用了這點特性,結果成就了科學史上的神話,他就是愛因斯坦。

==========    雙魚的致命缺點:懦弱    ==========

現實中的雙魚座確實給人太多的失望,懦弱,多疑,自卑,優柔寡斷,沒有主見.....一個雙魚座或許沒有上面全部的特點,但至少會有一,二個。就算是偉大如周恩來,有時候難免有些優柔寡斷和沒有主見,當然,這種時候不多。

造成雙魚座優柔寡斷的原因很簡單。因為同樣一個選擇,在一個射手看來,只需要考慮2樣東西,但是在雙魚看來,卻需要考慮10樣東西,因為他想的實在是太多了。簡單的說一句話,雙魚都會想到它會給周圍的人帶來多少種不同的影響,它會讓人對自己有怎麼樣的看法,會不會造成誤解。(雖然很多時候,雙魚會衝動的把一些話脫口而出) 至於多疑,這點和自卑聯繫的比較緊密。雖然雙魚座能輕易的瞭解對方的意圖,看透事情的真相,但是卻往往不能堅持住自己的觀點,這種不能堅持大多數是因為雙魚座自己不願接受這個事實,也有很多時候是因為雙魚對自己不夠自信。關於前一點,比較突出的一個例子是,雙魚座的女孩不到男孩子直截了當的告訴她,他不愛她了,女孩就總是還抱有一線希望,雖然女孩心裡明白的很。

懦弱呢?關於這點,和信仰聯繫在一起。你一定覺得很奇怪,懦弱和信仰又有什麼關係呢?信仰是種很可怕的力量,他可以讓一個人做出平時不敢做的事情,擁有不該擁有的勇氣,犧牲不該犧牲的東西。而雙魚恰恰是沒有一丁點信仰的,就算有,也不過是為了給生活加一點調味劑,或是給自己找一個避難所。對於雙魚來說,自己能過舒適,安穩的日子,比什麼都重要。富貴如浮雲,最想的開這點的就是雙魚座了。至於愛國什麼的,酒飽飯足的雙魚可以慷慨激昂,也會不惜重金施於,但是只是建立在自己有好日子過的前提下。

接下來,可以解釋下雙魚的懦弱了。只要能讓自己和愛人平平安安,有什麼不可以忍受的呢?什麼尊嚴,什麼氣節,見鬼去吧。所以只要不把雙魚逼到絕境,你盡可以嘲弄雙魚的懦弱。每條魚的忍受範圍都不同,但一般都比正常人多那麼一點點。但是如果你不小心讓一條魚覺得無路可走了,那麼你真的要小心了。魚可以踐踏人間一切法律,無視所有道理,更不會考慮自己的尊嚴和人格。你務必要相信這一點,雖然這種時候很少,但那只不過是因為上帝不想讓人們經常看到地獄的慘狀。

==========     雙魚的最大優點:感情    ==========

與其說雙魚是個為愛情而活的星座,不如說雙魚是個為感情而活的星座。對於雙魚來說,世界上最重要的東西是感情,一條精神上滿足的魚,可以沒有其他東西,就已經是最幸福的人(當然,絕大多數情況下,沒有其他東西,很難精神上滿足)。任何感情對於雙魚來說都是重要的,愛情很重要,但不見得會比親情更重要,在雙魚的眼中。

對於魚來說,感情是單純的,是單獨的。魚可以原諒對方的一切,只要那個人是真心對他好的。你可以十惡不赦,可以吃喝嫖賭,可以之前是人盡可夫的妓女,可以是個卑鄙無恥的騙子,都可以原諒,只要魚能確定你是真心的喜歡他,對他好。但是請注意一點,大部分的魚都比你聰明,不要以為你的小伎倆可以騙到魚,你是不是真心喜歡他,他比誰都清楚。

對於一個男孩子來說,雙魚女孩能給你對於一個女孩子想要的一切,溫柔,愛你不顧一切,可愛(很多時候是裝的,魚大多數是很聰明的),體貼.....

對於一個女孩子來說,雙魚男孩....嗯..... 看你的運氣了,如果你遇到的魚是個沒有志氣,不想做事,玩玩樂樂的魚,而且他已經25歲左右了,那麼好心的提醒你,還是盡早離開他吧。除非你是個富婆,或者你只是找個情人(沒有人比雙魚更適合做情人了:安全快樂而無副作用)。否則,你會經歷世間最淒涼的婚姻和生活,阿門................

那麼如果你遇到的魚是有事業心,能上進,肯做事的魚,或者乾脆就是事業有成的魚,那麼真的是恭喜你,你是千萬少女中最幸運的一個,再挑剔的女人也無法對一個有上進心有事業的魚有更多的要求了。你可以得到世界上一切的溫柔和快樂,包括用錢買的到的和用錢買不到的,魚很樂意把他的一切奉獻給他愛的人,看到他愛的人開心,他會更開心。大部分的魚的"一切"僅僅只有感情,而沒有物質,但是我們現在討論的是最優秀的那種魚,那種能隨時把名望和財富送給你的魚,現在你知道你有多幸運了吧。

=============    提到感情不得不提的:公平  =============

很奇怪嗎?公平對於雙魚來說,是個很重要的單詞。雙魚沒有普遍意義上的價值觀,是非觀,你不能用這件事這樣做是對的,那樣做是錯的來說服一個雙魚座。永遠記住,魚的世界裡很少有對錯。那麼魚又是怎麼來處理他和別人(尤其是愛人的關係)呢?就是公平。

如果魚曾經有過十幾,二十個女朋友,那麼他就不會在意你以前有過多少個男朋友,如果魚一個不小心跑出去玩了一夜情,那麼你一夜情的時候,他也會選擇無所謂

好吧,就算你的魚純情的一塌糊塗,你是他(她)的第一次,他也可以原諒你的曾經花心,一時花心,可能會的花心,只要你能用足夠的關心和真心的喜歡彌補。魚大致兌換了下你的關心(兌換比例只有天知道了,呵呵),如果覺得雙方大致公平的(相對於他對於你的感情付出),那麼他就無所謂,就會原諒你。

所以和魚相處是件很簡單的事情,只要你能保證你給他的和他為你付出的差不多多,就可以了。至於倫理道德嘛...嗯,講真的,魚從來不是教條主義者。

反過來,如果你讓魚覺得你對他的關心不夠多,對他的愛不夠多(不夠多是指沒有他給你的多),那麼魚會在痛苦之後,也相應的減少對你的關心和愛,不要懷疑,這方面,魚比誰都表現的現實和斤斤計較。

==========    感情中的完美主義  ========== 

魚在意的東西很少,所以很不幸,魚對於他在意的東西就是完美主義者的態度。對於魚來說,完美的情人不是忠貞不二的情人,不是事業愛情兼顧的情人,也不是外形完美的情人。魚要求的是"完美的愛"。

你可以不經常說我愛你,但是你說的時候,一定要是真心實意。你可以很少陪他逛街,但是你陪的時候,一定要是真的開開心心。你也可以對他說很少的情話,但是你要保證,你對別人說的情話更少,而且你對他說的是真心的話。

對於魚來說,欺騙和做作是最不可原諒的。很多人以為簡簡單單的對魚說幾句我愛你,固定性的發些短信問候魚,經常為魚買些好東西就能讓魚覺得被愛了。真不幸,大部分魚都聰明過了頭,一般都能輕鬆辨別那些舉動是真心的,那些不過是手段(如果你曾經用這些手段征服過雙魚女生,也別得意,只不過是雙魚女生比男生更難以拒絕別人而已)。

所以,請誠實一點對待魚,愛他多少就給他多少,他也會給你同樣多。這至少比他生你的氣好的多,不是嗎?

==========    雙魚真的浪漫嗎?  ==========

所有的星座解釋都會說雙魚是浪漫的,但是所有和雙魚(特別是雙魚男生,一般浪漫都是指男生做的事情)接觸過的人,都往往感覺不到雙魚的浪漫,到底是為什麼呢?難道雙魚並不浪漫?    我給你個肯定的答案,雙魚絕對浪漫,他腦子裡面的浪漫點子不僅包含了所有好萊塢大片的經典場景,還有更多他自己的原創鏡頭,他時不時的都在幻想浪漫的場面,一個魚可能在他18的時候就開始想他30歲結婚的佈置。

那麼為什麼現實中是兩樣呢?因為2點,自卑和善良。前一點很好理解,大部分的浪漫需要自信。很多時候,不是魚不想浪漫,而是不好意思和沒膽子那麼..那麼自信的魚呢?為什麼他也不浪漫?  因為他沒有遇到合適的人,因為他善良。

雙魚的愛情大部分是有些被動的。魚總是輕易的喜歡上一個女孩子(注意,我用的單詞是喜歡),然後開始和這個女孩開始交往,然後十有八九,會發現這個女孩不是能給自己完美的愛的女孩(這是肯定的,遇到最合適自己的人哪有那麼容易),魚很現實的知道,他和這個女孩不可能有將來的,2個人能擁有只能是一段回憶。那麼對魚來說,絕大部分的情話都會說不出口,因為魚自己知道這些話都是騙人的,很多浪漫的舉動做不出來,因為魚不敢讓女孩陷的太深,怕分手的那一天女孩太傷心。很多人說處女,金牛的人想的多,其實魚想的並不比他們少,只不過猶猶豫豫又捨不得的魚,就算明瞭的知道和女孩沒有將來,也不會點破,只會靜靜的維持,享受擁有的每一天。但是這樣的情況下,魚的善良就讓魚忍住了很多浪漫的情話和行動。

我這麼說是不是顯的魚很高尚?呵呵,沒有什麼真正高尚的人。魚能如此的為女孩著想,是因為這麼做能讓魚覺得自己很偉大,有一種悲劇式的美感,魚願意讓自己沉浸在這種自我的意淫中。

當然,這樣至少比不顧別人的死活,只圖自己開心要好的多是不是?所以還是應該為魚們鼓鼓掌的。所以,如果有一天,你看到一條浪漫無比的魚,不要懷疑,他已經認定你們有個美好的未來,他已經知道他不會給你太多的傷心了,那你還猶豫什麼?上去擁抱你的幸福吧。

============    結語:什麼樣是好的雙魚?  ============

雙魚有很多缺點,但是大多數都可以原諒。除了2條,懶惰和猶豫。而雙魚要成為一條好魚,所需要的東西很簡單,事業。其實不用去提醒魚們其他的事情了,他們自己都能想明白。只需能保證魚能穩步進行他們的事業就可以了。

一旦魚用心去賺錢了,那麼他肯定能賺到錢。但是這一點很難,真的很難,如果有一天,你看到一條生龍活虎的魚,千萬不要放過,好好的捆住他,很有可能,他會帶給你所有的夢想.

Friday, October 16, 2009

Our Dear Amy Chin!

Finally our dearest Amy is married! Seeing our cute Amy getting married in her beautiful wedding dress, feels so happy and proud of her! Congratulations Amy! We must hang out often even though you are married!! :)

Understand the Pisceans

The Zodiacal Sign of Pisces commences on February 20th, but for seven days, it does not come into its full power until about February 27th. From this date onwards it is in full strength until March 20th, and it is then for seven days gradually losing its strength on account of becoming overlapped by the "cusp" of the incoming sign Aries.

This gentle sign cannot hurt your directly, it is their weaknesses that can scramble your brains. The majority of Pisces people are kind and gullible.

The young Pisces are adventurous, ambitious, impulsive, enthusiastic and full of energy. The Pisces are pioneers both in thought and action, very open to new ideas and a lover of freedom. These people possess a curiously natural understanding, which they do not obtain from books or study. They easily acquire, or rather absorb, knowledge, especially of the history of countries, travel, research, and like subject.

Although by nature generous, yet they are usually over-anxious about money matters, and inclined to worry about what their future position in life may be. This state of mind is largely due to their dislike and dread of being dependent on others more than from any love of money.

They can easily be irritated by slowness or moderation in their companions and, though themselves sensitive, ride roughshod over the sensitivities of others. These qualities make them, however, much misunderstood, and they are often considered dose in money matters when in reality they are not.

People born in this period often go back on their promises, especially on questions of money. They promise to give, on the impulse of the moment, but if they have time for reflection then the tear of future poverty forces them, as rule, to break their promise or give perhaps, only one hah of what they had stipulated. From that point of view people born in this period should try to exercise an iron self-control, to discipline the qualities and tendencies of their character to the advantage, not the detriment, of the society in which they move.

These people are also more mentally ambitious than otherwise. They may know their subject well in their mind, but they will hesitate and undervalue their own individuality if they find they have to put it to a test in any public manner

They are inclined to brood and become melancholy, or to imagine all the world is against them and that they are being made martyrs of. Depression gets them. Because they see life as a mystical whole, they take it as a sign that they're bad people when things go wrong. No other zodiac sign plans the evening on the basis of a reading from a fortune cookie.

Many artists, musicians and literary people are born m this period, but they must receive great encouragement ever to make the best of themselves.

These people are very devoted to their friends or to any cause they take up, provided they feel they are trusted or looked up to. They are generally successful in ail positions of responsibility, bat at the same time they are not inclined to push themselves forward, and usually wait to be asked before giving their opinions.

The strongest and weakest characters are found in this sign. Some are inclined to gratify their innate sense of luxury and self-indulgence and, if this side of the nature is the one that controls, they are likely to be too easy-going, to be too receptive to their surroundings, to become influenced by false friends, to give way to fraudulent schemes and in some cases are inclined to become addicted to drugs or drink.

If, however, persons born in this part of the year find some purpose worth living for, they rise to the emergency as no others can. These are the people that one meets sometimes in Life who surprise their friends by their sudden change of character. Pisceans are shy. Other people think they are mysterious, or just confused, but a Pisces can sort out other people's troubles.

All people who were born in this sign are highly emotional. If they belong to the weak side of it, they are easily influenced by the people with whom they are thrown into contact, but if they belong to the stronger side, their emotional nature can lift them up to any height.

In business matters they are really good in dealing with shipping and trade with foreign countries. Sea captains, sailors of all kinds, also travelers, are often born under this sign.

Such people have a curiously mystical side to their nature as well as the practical. They are often classed as superstitious, the occult in all its forms appealing to them in one way or another. They love to search out or investigate the unknown, the philosophical, or the mysterious. If people born in this sign overcame their sensitiveness and developed their will-power, there is no position in life they could not attain. It is important to remember that there is still the little devil in them, which means that at times they would attain their goals more easily by gently giving in without resistance to the demands of a given social situation, rather than getting their ambitious entangled in something larger and more powerful than they are.

They will lie to save your feelings, or just to stake out a little privacy for themselves. They don't like to be alone too much, just a little, to get the peace back. They can get addicted to booze, pills, or crackerjacks, so they really have to watch it.

Pisces - The Sign of the Dolphin
Your personality is a combination of all the zodiac signs . You may be a musically or artisticly gifted person, and creativeness is inherent in you. You are a great empathiser, always knowing how someone else is feeling. That makes a good councellor and a sensitive lover from you. Occasionally you enjoy solitude and like to get away from everyone and stay alone in order to regain your senses.

Friends
Pisces find their most lasting friendships with people born in their own period or between Jane 21 and July 20.

Health
As regards health, people born in this period are mostly inclined to suffer from nerves, insomnia, despondency and poor circulation, anemia. They often have intestinal trouble. They should, if possible, live in bright, sunny, dry climates, and take a great amount of fresh air and exercise. They like extremes. Physical, emotional and mental, and benefit profoundly by experiencing them; but if their extremism goes too far beyond social acceptability, then they should expect to be extremely lonely.

Color
The colors most suitable to such people are all shades of mauve, violet, and purple.

Stones
The birth stones for this period are agates, sapphires, amethysts, and emeralds.

Friday, October 09, 2009

Sharing is not necessary be Caring

Sharing problems with other is not something wrong or stupid but once u decide to share your stuff with others, do not expect too much from the person you are sharing it with. I'm sure when you decide to tell your stories, you may already predicted what is the outcome and effects to come later on. We can't confirm that what we said today, right here and now, to the person will be 100% sealed and without any third party getting involve in it. We can't tell how accurate that what we feel and what we share to the person today will express the feed backs you like or agree with.

No matter what you share to others, you need to share it with your own risk. Everything has its risk in it. It just depends whether you wanna take the risk or not. If you think that something is a "super secret" which you feel bad on even mentioning it, why bother to even slip a bit of detail bout it? Seal your lips and keep it to your heart if it really will affect your mood when people knows or giving wrong advice. No point spitting stuff out if you can't accept a single advice. If you insist on telling it, no matter what response or what advice you have back, just accept it or just listen. No point backing fire people when you feel bad bout the advice.

And last but not least, the listener have the right to just only listen. They do not have the responsibility to have any special treatment or caring on you. Knowing is not necessary lending a helping hand. Perhaps only advice. And each person have their own stand, own mentality and own thoughts. You can't expect everyone to give you the advice you like to hear.